Tell Me Your Story

I'm a survivor of domestic violence. My story is not extraordinary, it's like so many of those out there, and that's what makes it relevant. Your story does not have to be outrageous for people to relate to it. Victims and survivors of all races, religions, genders, sexualities, classes, etc., have a story to tell.
Why should the tale be told? Who does it help to expose one's private pain? All of us.
First, it helps friends, family, and the community at large to understand what goes on in the life of a victim/survivor. It's not as simple as many think to simply leave and stay away, but in order for others to be supportive and help, it's good for them to have a better understanding of the complexities and dynamics of domestic violence.
Next, it helps victims who are still out there living in their private hell. The more they hear women breaking the silence, reinforcing that our victimization is not something we should be ashamed of, the more those victims will begin to respect themselves and know that it is not their fault. It will also show them that while it is not easy and should be done safely, escape is possible.
Finally, it helps the storyteller, who can find the process to be therapeutic and healing. Getting it out is liberating, and speaking out about it to make a difference is empowering.
I invite you to share your story. Please leave out details that would identify you, such as name, location, etc., but share as much of your story as you feel comfortable sharing. If you'd like to be contacted for a follow-up interview to further tell your story, please indicate as such.